Thursday, October 16, 2008
{ 9:15 PM }
Let's just start with questioning ourselves. That'd be a good kick-start.
Whether or not we're the ones doing that first, or whether we're deserving of the respect we demand from others. Perhaps it differs from person to person, but many are just unable to realise that mistakes made by oneself is usually harder to accept, especially if one always thinks that they are right. Constantly being adamant about a situation can lead to disastrous consequences. One could possibly take things from a different viewpoint and put oneself in others' shoes. Difficult, it may seem to be. But could things take a turn for the better henceforth?
For one, if you are the sort who loves to cling on to your stubborn streak, you'd just blame people for every single thing that gets in your way. Stubborn and opinionated/firm only have a thin line of difference, of which I think many lack the maturity to even understand what meanings these three words hold.
The simplest way to live is to admit your mistakes when you make them, stop blaming other people for whatever predicament you are in and what they say of you because you may have to self reflect upon what you are truly like. And people don't make baseless comments about you just because you claim that "They're jealous because..I'm special." Thats utter crap. When people comment about certain things, they are obviously pinpointing the horrendous truth which you might not have the courage to accept. Well, man learns to take things in stride even as he merely lives life to the minimum, and this is one important thing to learn-that the ugly truth(whose name speaks for itself)is indeed ugly and painful. Maybe learning to accept it slowly would do every single existing being some good indeed. Just learn to stop shifting the blame and passing the buck around. One may be too thick to understand these statements, but it doesn't really bother me anyway.
Oh, read between the lines all you want.
THATS what I call being too paranoid.
I suppose your conscience is bugging you now?
I wouldn't be too worried if I were you. I'm afraid of being called a cyber bully, you know.
Blogging requires a certain level of self-control, discipline and respect.
Take that.